Obsessive dating behavior
Don’t worry too much about having lost your center.
We all do it, and you can grow a new one or find your old one if you work at it.
You can’t relax or trust in your own goodness, even when you find someone who does appear to love you, becuase you can’t control him really – he might be too good to be true, or he might go away.
I’ll bet that a lot of the obsessiveness you are experiencing stems from you somehow needing a man’s approval of you before you believe that you are valuable.
Absorbed Stage: Due to the consuming nature of infatuation, it can be hard to spot red flags of an obsessive relationship during courtship.
At the extreme, the end of the relationship can lead to the end of a life.