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I just think we're done and need a clean split for once and for all.. He says now isnt the time because we are currently living with his mom (we had our own apartment together but both lost our jobs a few months after I found out I was pregnant, so we moved in with his mom) and even though we are both working now, he thinks we should be focused on getting back on our feet.(Sorry for venting) ^^^^^girlyou are preaching to the choir! Next year may will make 11 years together and I'm just getting tired of being his girlfriend/child's mother. I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have two kids.We are now approaching New Years 2016 and I'm Still hanging on. All I want is for him to be serious and give me a ring without being forced or asked. And when I bring it up he says that we argue too much. we have two kids and been living together for 4 years. Every year its the same excuse next year when we get on our own a year passes nothing and like you i am tired of referring him as my bf childs father we have alot if damage in our relationship from the past sometimes i feel like im wasting time and putting more stress on myself Hi there I just SAT there and read everybody else's comments and yours was the one that stood out the most to me.Well this is what our arguments are about is him proposing!!! I love him and he's a great father and I really hate to mess up our little Family but I can't go on like this. I can relate to you so much I have been with mine for 12 years since I was 15 years old we had our first baby when I was 17 years old and just had our other one in 2013 I'm now 27 years old and I'll be 28 this year and I feel like I've just watched my life go by.It will hurt like hell to break things up, and you will question absolutely everything you've ever felt or believed in, but in time, you'll get better, and realize you have a life to live and can't be wasting your time on someone who doesn't love you the way you deserve to be loved. He followed me when I moved and we got back together (although I sometimes want to kick myself now for doing that) but I gave in. Now I'm at the point where I need a commitment (i.e.He might be a great man (as I still think mine was), but you deserve to have a marriage and a family, and if he can't produce that, then it's better to let it go. I love this man and we have pets together and he is really good to me but for whatever reason there is a block over this issue. Marriage) but I don't think it's gonna happen and I'm tired of forcing the issue cuz it's losing any honesty/purity that it could have had if he proposed w/o me nagging them. Or do I 'suck it up' and resent him for the rest of my life... Even to this day- he swears that he wants to marry me but he wants the 'perfect ring' or the 'perfect timing'.
Hi Im sorry no one can state he doesnt see you as his wife no one knows whats going on in his head. I know how you feel Ive been with my fella 7 years we have a daughter and I moved out his house last year,it doesnt make them want to Marry you anymore, I never moved out because of that but I dont think my fella will marry me Im his 3rd Long term and the other 2 finished the relationship as he wouldnt Marry.
I don't have that drive to keep trying to fix it anymore. " But I let him talk me into believing it will be different.